Goal For The Day: No Talkin’ or Thinkin’ Smack About People
After spending my days, months and even years worrying about what others are doing or thinking I have finally realized the futility of such an endeavor. ‘Concern’ or worry about the thoughts and actions of our kids, siblings, parents and especially our spouse is enough to take us out of our happy place.
I have found myself guilty of this lately. Criticizing other’s actions (even though I do think they are wrong actions) is creating a negative vibration in my world so it must change. Sometimes it’s hard but we must let people close to us make choices for themselves and allow them to be themselves. So what better than a few Abraham-Hicks quotes …
"Because I am no longer asking the impossible. I’m no longer needing you to change so that I can feel better. I finally got a direct route to feeling great, and that is controlling my own point of focus."
"You are first and foremost individual creator and sometimes upon some topics you are co-creator. And, so often as you come together in a relationship, you smother the freedom that is essential to your being by expecting the other to now think exactly as you do, want exactly as you do, be exactly as you are upon all subjects."
Tags: acceptance, tolerance, abraham-hicks, quotes
